when you walk into my club there are six signs stating the rules of the club. one of the rules clearly states "NO RUDE OR OBSCENE REMARKS TO THE LADIES, PLEASE." Now, both thursday and friday i had people get rude with me but not to the point where i felt the need to totally flip out and throw shit around the dressing room. however, last night as i was going around for my tips, i kindly asked a man to tip me because he was just staring at me while i was standing in front of him. i said "sir, if you're sitting this close to my pussy, you have to tip me" as he was sitting at the tipping bar. he said "i don't owe you anything." i said, "you, actually you HAVE to either tip me, or move away from the tip bar. i could go get a bouncer..." he then proceeded to go into a long winded monolouge about how he had money, how he was sitting there before i even performed and showed me the 2 grand he had in his wallet and continued to state that i didn't deserve his money and that he owed me nothing. he then ended his monolouge with shoving a dollar between my luscious breasts and saying, "THERE YOU GO YOU UGLY FUCKING BITCH." I ran to get a bouncer, as one of the club rules states that you may not make rude remarks to the ladies. I count "ugly fucking bitch" as rude.  The bouncer, after talking to the patron, told me that he couldn't kick him out because he was spending money (on everyone but me apparently). REALLY!? I then proceeded to tell both my manager and dj that i was "fucking leaving" because i "didn't feel safe at work". Where is the loyalty to the employees? At any other occupation the customer would have been kicked out of the establishment. i hate to get all feminist/racial equality on your asses but seriously, this is another example of white men with money getting away with anything they want.